Recently I don't know why I am so brilliant to read some of advise article and guess what I have found this interesting article about L.O.V.E
So I decided to post this to you GIRL MY SWEETY and to THE GUYS out there whom read this article. Sorry if you think we are bias and think all girls are right but boys are 'THE GUILTY' ♠ ♣ ♥ ♦ No! Absolutely incorrect, Im here talking about what's the right and what's the wrong. I don't mean to bias.
First, this is my favourite list ' IF A MAN IS JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU, MOVE ON GIRLS, AND QUICKLY' better leave him for your sake. You better love yourself first before you learn to love someone else. It's really sad when you want so much to be part of another's person life, only to realize that you're low on his priority list. It shatters your self-esteem, so why not save yourself the inevitable embarrassment and pain ? I remember a relationship where I was the only one constantly keep remembered him and contacting him rather than the other way around. He felt why he should do that, because he believe this just will bring dull and boring into our relationship ! And for sake he doesn't want our relationship will broke down so he refuses to contact me. But I wonder why he so hyperactive then to his girl friends. Why the person deserve to get special treats from you,but you just ignore. WTF right ?
'YOU CAN'T MAKE SOMEONE LOVE YOU JUST BECAUSE YOU LOVE HIM' this is the second. Unfortunately, love doesn't work that way. He might grow to like you a lot because you're caring, but woman deserve more than being merely liked a lot by the man she loves. She deserves to be truly, madly, deeply loved.
Third, ' IF A MAN REALLY LOVES A WOMAN, HE'D MARRY HER' If you've reached a stage in the relationship where the next natural step is a ring but he hems and haws whenever you mention this, the painful truth is he's not that into you. You're wasting your time with him.
'IF A MAN LOVES YOU,HE'LL BUY YOU PRESENTS.
Next, 'DONT'T CLING ON TO LOVE FOR THE SAKE OF LOVE' do you know what I mean ? There are situations where love alone can't solve everything. It's an ill-fated love. Accept it as a cruel fact of life, grieve over it even, then let it go. I've found that if you try hard enough, love can die or at least recede into a whisper of a bitter-sweet memory even the most ardent and genuine of love.
'KEEP AN OPEN MIND' so you might have an image of what your perfect husband should be like but get over it. Remember this then Life's not a Fantasy.
Most important,especially to MISS MONEY-DIGGER is 'DON'T BE OVERWHELMED BY A MAN'S FANCY CAR, FANCY HOUSE OR FANCY CLOTHES' It's really the person inside the car, house and clothes that matters. By the same token, don't be under-whelmed by a less-than-fancy car, house or clothes. Women can earn the car and house themselves, and you can always buy your man nice clothes too.
'DON'T UNDERESTIMATE KINDNESS, GENTLENESS AND PATIENCE IN A MAN'
'IF YOU DON'T LOVE THE WAY HE LOOKS, THE WAY HE SOUNDS AND THE WAY HE SPEAKS, FORGET ABOUT MARRIAGE BECAUSE THAT'S THE FIRST AND LAST THING YOU'RE GOING TO SEE AND HEAR EVERY DAY FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE'
'IF HE DOESN'T SHARE YOUR SENSE OF HUMOUR, YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE A FRUSTRATING AND BORING LIFE TOGETHER'
'IF YOU ARE NOT ABLE TO SIT IN A ROOM WITHOUT TV, STARE INTO EACH OTHER'S EYES AND TALK AND TALK FOR HOURS ON END ABOUT NOTHING IN PARTICULAR, WELL IT'S NOT A GOOD SIGN'
'IF THERE ANYTHING ABOUT HIM THAT YOU VIEW WITH DISQUIET AT THE START OF RELATIONSHIP-THE WAY HE EATS, THE WAY HE SMELLS, HOW HIS EARLOBES CURL-RECONSIDER BECAUSE DISQUIET MIGHT ONE DAY TURN INTO DISGUST'
'ONLY MARRY SOMEONE WHOM YOU WON'T MIND SHARING YOUR PRECIOUS POSSESSIONS WITH'
'LONG-DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS ARE HARD TO SUSTAIN AND PROBABLY WON'T WORK'
'BE SENSITIVE TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE' There are, for example limits to what you say. Some things might cross the line and hurt him.
Finally 'NEVER LEND YOUR BOYFRIEND MONEY' Odds are you'll never get it back. It'll also be a source of friction. You'll feel aggrieved that he hasn't paid you back and he'll feel resentful that he's in your debt.
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